Surrogacy 101: Medical process

Posted on: January 21st, 2012 by Simple Surrogacy No Comments

Surrogacy 101: Medical process

This article continues our series on informational articles about surrogacy.

Cycling

Once the contracts are complete and testing has finished, the Surrogate and the Egg Donor (who can be the Intended Mother or a donor) synchronize their cycles. This is usually with birth control pills. About 14 days into the birth control pills, both Surrogate and Egg Donor will start Lupron.  Lupron is a subcutaneous (just under the skin) injection to shut down the body’s normal hormone production used to control the cycle and ensure the Surrogate’s uterus is ready to receive the embryos at the exact time for the best chance of success.

The Surrogate is usually about a week or so ahead of the Egg Donor to ensure her uterus will be ready when the eggs are retrieved and fertilized, and because they can keep the SM in a holding pattern for up to 2 weeks once her uterine lining is at optimum.

When the menstrual cycle starts while on Lupron, the Lupron dose is usually decreased by half and the Surrogate will start adding Estrogen replacement to the mix (in the form of pills, patches, or shots depending on the doctor). Some doctors have you take other medications as well (Dexamethasone to suppress male hormones to increase implantation, antibiotics to guard against any infection that might have gone undiagnosed, etc.)

The Egg Donor starts on injectable fertility hormones on her cycle day 3 to stimulate her ovaries to produce several eggs as opposed to just 1 or 2. Fertility hormones continue anywhere from 7 to 12 days depending on the Egg Donor’s response to the hormones. The Egg Donor is checked about 3 times a week via ultrasound and blood tests to determine her response to the drugs.

Once the follicles are the right size (about 18-20mm) she is given an HCG shot which induces an LH surge which also matures the eggs. Thirty-six hours after the HCG shot the egg retrieval is performed. Up until this time, the date/time of the transfer is flexible.

The eggs retrieved are fertilized with sperm from either the Intended Father or a sperm donor and incubated for 2-5 days. Lupron usually stops the day before egg retrieval in the Surrogate. Progesterone replacement (most often in the form of intramuscular injections, but sometimes with suppositories or Crinone gel) starts the day of the retrieval and continues until the 12th week of pregnancy or a negative pregnancy test. Estrogen replacement also continues until the 7th-12th week of pregnancy (when the placenta takes over hormone production). Because the Surrogate was on Lupron and had natural hormones were suppressed, The Surrogate will need to take external sources of these very important hormones in order to maintain any pregnancy that occurs.

Surrogacy 101: Legal process- Validation, Court, or Post-Birth Legal

Posted on: January 9th, 2012 by Simple Surrogacy No Comments

Surrogacy 101: Legal process- Validation, Court, or Post-Birth Legal

The legal process does not end with the finalization of the legal contract. The remainder of the process will differ the most, depending on weather the Intended Parents are a gay couple, a single parent, a married couple, an international couple, and it also varies depending on the state.

We will highlight some common legal processes here, depending on some frequent states for Surrogacy.

Texas

In Texas, if a Married couple decided to enter into a surrogacy, they are the most protected by the laws of the state. There is a clear legal process for a Married couple in Texas to use Surrogacy, and it is the easiest to accomplish. After completion of the contract, the Intended Parent’s attorney will file a petition to Validate with the court.  The Court will validate the gestational agreement, and the Intended Parents or Agency will testify to the validity of the agreement in court. Once validated, the court will issue a pre-birth order, which will be given to the delivery hospital. The hospital will use the pre-birth order to put the Intended Parent’s names directly on the birth certificate.

This process is the same for validation weather the couple is International, or if they have used an egg or sperm donor, so long as they area legally married heterosexual couple.

In Texas, if you do not fall into the category of married hetero couple, you can still have an easy successful surrogacy in Texas.  While your contract cannot be validated in the courts, the rights of the biological parent to the child are still well protected. The process would be a post-birth termination of the Gestational Surrogate’s assumed rights and there would be genetic testing done, if necessary to determine the biological father.

The Biological Father’s name would be put on the birth certificate, and the other Father, if any, would get rights later under various processes such as a joint conservatorship.

Arkansas

Arkansas is a great state for Single parents, as they enjoy the rights to the full protection of the laws there. They can be granted a pre-birth order, similar to Texas.

California, Florida, Chicago, Areas of Pennsylvania

The above are all great states for gay couples to pursue surrogacy in, as their names can be put directly on the birth certificate in most areas. While attorneys should be consulted to explain the rights in a case by case basis, these are usually very favorable states to gay couples. Of course, Married couples can use these states as well.

Other States

There are other states that are favorable to surrogacy, as well as many states where surrogacy is either illegal, or has major complications. If you are considering surrogacy, be sure to consult Simple Surrogacy or an attorney in your state who can help you determine the laws there before you consider surrogacy.

Peter Gordon is about to become a Father!

Posted on: December 16th, 2011 by Simple Surrogacy No Comments

One of our wonderful Intended fathers, Peter Gordon, is about to be come a Father. His Surrogate is currently in labor right now with his twins, and he’ll be a dad any moment! Here is a post on his blog about us. Thanks, Peter, we feel the same way about you!

Peter’s story will be featured on 20/20 on ABC

Archive for the ‘Published’ Category

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Dec. 15th 2011

Look no further than Simple Surrogacy for an agency to fulfill your dreams. There is no question that Simple Surrogacy is absolutely the best. I have been with them since last November and I am expecting twins in December! They introduced me to what I believe is the BEST Surrogate (Gestational Carrier) a single Intended Father could have hoped for. The entire process has been AMAZING, from the first time I met my wonderful surrogate to the embryo transfer, to finding out that I had twins on the way on our FIRST TRY, to seeing the twins on Sonogram for the first time.

Stephanie Scott is the Executive Director and has been hands on throughout the entire process. A wonderful and caring person who understands what we are going through as she has been a surrogate herself, Stephanie goes the extra mile to ensure that all of your questions are answered, needs are met, and oversees every move of the process. She really takes very good care of you. I know that I am a client, but she makes me feel like family. I had extremely high expectations and she has lived up to every one of them! Stephanie also takes very good care of the surrogate, which is extremely important to me.

As you can see, there is no doubt in my mind that Simple Surrogacy is the way to go. I did my due diligence and researched a number of agencies. I feel incredibly thankful to have found them. Given the chance to do this again, I would absolutely go right back to Simple Surrogacy. Of course, I wouldn’t have to go far to find them as Stephanie is a part of my extended family now. You can search all you want but know that you can’t get better than Simple Surrogacy!

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Surrogacy 101: Legal process- Reviews and Negotiation

Posted on: November 27th, 2011 by Simple Surrogacy No Comments

Surrogacy 101: Legal process- Reviews and Negotiation

Once the Attorney receives the referral and Match sheet, they will contact the Intended Parents to have them sign their retainer. If the Intended Parents are in Texas, or have chosen a Texas Surrogate to take advantage of our Legal Included Surrogacy program, then they will have their drafting and review, as well as the Surrogate’s review already paid for under their retainer with us.

If the Intended Parents do not reside in TX or have not chosen a Texas Surrogate, then they would pay the attorney directly for their retainer fee and services for post-birth work if any. After the contract is drafted, the Intended Parents will review the contract with their attorney first to be sure they fully understand it. If they have changes, these will be requested to the Surrogate’s attorney, who is working independently for the Surrogate. In the case of using our Match sheet, it is our goal to have as few change requests as possible to speed the process and reduce attorney costs if they are charging hourly. After making any requested changes, the IP’s attorney will forward the contract to the Surrogate’s attorney for their review.

The Surrogate and her attorney will also review the contract and have the opportunity to make any change requests. Again, the use of the match sheet and general fee terms usually eliminates any major changes. While all parties are of course free to have changes, we have found the more the parties try to deviate from the match sheet or make last minute changes, the greater the chance of the other party not agreeing or backing down. Therefore, we try to make the process as smooth as possible to avoid any excessive back and forth or unusual change requests.

The Surrogate’s attorney fees are paid by the Intended Parents, even though the Surrogate’s attorney only works for her. Once all parties are satisfied with the contract, it will be signed by all parties, and notarized, and returned to the attorney to file as necessary with the courts, and for the Agency, Simple Surrogacy, to send to the clinic for legal clearance.

Surrogacy 101 – Legal process – Match sheet and Drafting

Posted on: October 27th, 2011 by Simple Surrogacy No Comments

Surrogacy 101: Legal process- Match sheet and Drafting

This article continues our series on informational articles about surrogacy.

After all parties have passed screening they are ready to begin the Legal process. No surrogacy can take place without a valid legal contract; it is the single most important part of the process as it lays the groundwork for the entire surrogacy and all parties’ behaviors and obligations throughout.

The legal process will differ depending on many factors. These factors include the state that the Surrogacy will take place in, whether or not the Intended Parents are a legally married couple, and if there is an Egg Donor involved. The legal process, as a generalization, typically takes 6 weeks from start to finish.

Although Simple Surrogacy in no way will dispense Legal advice, we will refer all parties to dedicated Attorneys who are experts in Reproductive law to help them best determine how and under what laws their contract will be drafted.

If there is an Egg Donor involved, then a separate Egg Donation contract must be drafted and reviewed with all parties. We’ll cover the Egg Donation legal in a future post.

To begin the legal process, the Intended Parent’s attorney will receive a copy of their Match sheet, which contains all the information on the parties to the contract. Simple Surrogacy uses a Match sheet to expedite the process of negotiation of the contract, and it is one of the ways that we work to keep the costs of Surrogacy down. As everyone knows, Attorneys are expensive, and charge by the hour! If the average client were to walk directly into an attorney’s office and ask for a surrogacy contract, they would be asking that attorney to draft and negotiate the entire contract from scratch on their behalf.

With using Simple Surrogacy to guide the drafting and negotiation, the parties agree to most fees and terms beforehand. The Surrogacy fees are generally set and agreed to by the surrogate when they enter our program, if they are a first time surrogate. Experienced surrogates can ask for changes to the general terms, and the Intended Parents are made aware of their requests before they agree to match.

Once this match is agreed upon, the Match sheet will be presented to the Intended Parents for further review. It will contain information on compensation terms and schedules, expenses and fees, and other important material related to the Surrogacy match, such as Insurance information, timing periods,  base compensation and fees for bed rest, childcare, and lost wages. By having all parties agree to the terms of the match sheet before attorneys are brought in, we can save our clients substantial attorney costs and time spent in negotiating.

After all parties agree to the general terms laid out in the match sheet, then they are referred to attorneys to draft the contract.

Simple Surrogacy Get Together

Posted on: September 25th, 2011 by Simple Surrogacy No Comments

Simple Surrogacy’s Annual Get Together

Simple Surrogacy and Simple Donations held their annual (and sometimes bi-annual) get together at Maggianos Little Italy at Northpark on September 17th. Simple Surrogacy likes to host these get-togethers from time to time so that we can catch up with our wonderful old clients and see their adorable children, and also so that we can introduce our new prospective clients to our staff and they can meet clients who have been through the program before them.

The chance for a potential IP to meet a client who has been through our program is priceless. For many potential clients, they feel like they are the only people they know who are going through the process, or they have done general research, but never actually spoken to someone who has gone through a surrogacy. It is extremely helpful for these potential clients to not only know and see Simple Surrogacy’s successful clients and their children, but to also see that even though the road to parenthood through surrogacy can be long, it is ultimately very rewarding to achieve it!

Another benefit to our get-togethers is Intended Parent’s opportunity to mingle with current and former surrogates, and see how they interact with their former and current IP’s. For many potential IPs, the surrogate’s reasons for being a surrogate are sometimes a challenge to understand. They also wonder about the relationships that will form between themselves and their surrogates, both during and after the surrogacy journey. Speaking with the surrogates helps relieve many of these worries, and in some cases, even facilitates future matches among our Surrogates and IP’s! We have had Intended Parents tell us that in speaking with a surrogate and seeing how family oriented, compassionate and generous they all are, they gained the confidence to undertake the surrogacy journey for themselves.

I speak for myself when I say that it was a great pleasure to meet both our Surrogates and Intended Parents in person, and get the chance to relax and dine together for a few hours. I already can’t wait for the next get-together which will be in the spring! I know we’ll welcome many more babies to the Simple Surrogacy family by then, and I will get the chance to cuddle with even more tiny bundles of joy! Thank you again to our wonderful staff, Surrogates and clients who were able to join us, we cherish each and every one of you!-Stephanie Scott

Surrogacy 101: Counseling and Cycle Suggestions

Posted on: September 9th, 2011 by Simple Surrogacy No Comments

This article continues our series on informational articles about surrogacy.
After the initial medical screening, the Surrogate and Intended parents will also have counseling and psychological screenings and evaluations.

Counseling and Psychological Evaluations
The role of counseling is to prepare all parties involved in the treatment and to consider all factors which may influence the outcome. Counseling ensures that everyone is confident and comfortable with their participation and trusts each other. Counseling also minimizes foreseeable risks, thereby avoiding the placement of unacceptable burdens on any of the parties, including the future child. Some clinics require that a Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory (MMPI) be completed by the Gestational Surrogate and Egg Donor before entrance into their medical program. The MMPI is one of the most frequently used personality tests in the mental health fields. This assessment, or test, was designed to help identify personal, social, and behavioral problems in psychiatric patients. The test helps provide relevant information to aid in problem identification, diagnosis, and treatment planning for the patient. All Intended Parents, Surrogates and Donors participating in Simple Surrogacy’s Program are required to undergo a Psycho-Social Assessment before moving forward with the medical and legal process. These are provided by our program and are not an additional expense.

Gestational Surrogate/Intended Parent(s) Suggestions
During the treatment cycle both the Surrogate and Intended Parent(s) should:

·         Be open and honest regarding expectations and hopes throughout the process.
·         Refrain from smoking, drinking, and drug use.
·         Eat healthy food.
·         Take vitamin supplements.
·         Intended Fathers should refrain from taking hot showers or baths and sitting in Jacuzzi tubs within the week of their sperm donation to ensure their donation results in the best quality of sperm they have to offer.
·         Refrain from sexual intercourse during the cycling process.
·         Keep stress levels to a minimum.
·         Avoid overexertion .
·         Refrain from taking any additional medication other than that prescribed by the Reproductive Endocrinologist (RE) and/or your personal Physician.

Theresa Erickson, previous owner of Conceptual Options, pleads Guilty in Baby Selling Ring

Posted on: August 12th, 2011 by Simple Surrogacy No Comments

It is always unfortunate when innocent victims are taken advantage of, and even more so, when the people taking advantage of them could just as easily be helping them. Such is the case of Theresa Erickson, previous owner of Conceptual Options and an attorney specializing in reproductive law, who has pleaded guilty to baby selling in a ring also involving attorney Hilary Neiman of Maryland. We are so saddened by the actions of those in power who have taken advantage of Intended Parents, surrogates and the unfortunate babies themselves. Ms. Erickson and her co-conspirators sold babies of Surrogates to Intended Parents for sums of at least $100,000, after sending the surrogates overseas to be impregnated with donor eggs and donor sperm. It is sad to see what was assumed to be a prestigious agency owner fall so hard, and we hope this leads to greater regulation and oversight of Surrogacy Agencies in general. Our sympathies lie with the Intended Parents and Surrogates who were taken advantage of not only emotionally by preying on their emotions and desire for a baby at any cost, but also were defrauded financially, as we all know a successful surrogacy with a reputable agency can be had for $65,000-$95,000, and not at the exorbitant sums that Ms. Erickson and Hilary Neiman were charging while breaking the law. We are sure there will be more to come from this sad story, and we hope that Intended Parents are not turned off from Surrogacy as a whole, as there are still reputable Agencies such as Simple Surrogacy to help Intended Parents and Surrogates at reasonable, legal costs.

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Attorney admits guilt in baby-selling ring

An internationally known Poway attorney who specialized in reproductive law pleaded guilty Tuesday to a key role in what federal authorities said was a baby-selling ring.

Theresa Erickson, 43, admitted that she and her co-conspirators used women to create an inventory of unborn babies that they would sell for over $100,000 each, according to the San Diego offices of the U.S. attorney.

Federal prosecutors said three women —- Erickson, along with Hilary Neiman, an attorney from Maryland, and Carla Chambers, a surrogate mother —- admitted guilt in the scheme. Assistant U.S. Attorney Michael Merriman said that Erickson agreed to pay restitution of $120,000 —- $10,000 each to 12 couples victimized in the scheme, which started as far back as 2005.

The parents in the scheme did receive children, however, they are considered victims and “we are certainly not taking steps” that would see the parents lose custody of the children, Merriman said.

Under the conspiracy, women would go to overseas clinics and have embryos implanted, becoming pregnant.

Once the pregnancy entered the second trimester, Erickson and co-conspirators would solicit prospective parents willing to pay the high fees to buy the parental rights for an unborn baby, the charges state.

The timing of when a deal is struck matters. Before conception, a woman can agree to become pregnant for profit, under California law. After conception, however, the woman cannot profit from being pregnant and supplying a child to prospective parents. The first instance is considered surrogacy, the second instance is adoption.

Under the baby-selling scheme, prospective parents were duped into believing that the pregnancies were the result of legitimate surrogacy agreements gone awry because the first set of intended parents backed out, federal prosecutors alleged. The replacement parents paid fees of more than $100,000 to take over what they believed were legitimate surrogacy agreements.

Prosecutors said the baby-selling scheme created “a steady flow of newborns with the promise that they (the pregnant women) would be paid between $38,000 to $45,000 for each successful pregnancy that resulted in a birth,” according to charges the U.S. attorney’s office in San Diego filed against Erickson on Tuesday, the same day she pleaded guilty to a charge of conspiracy to commit wire fraud.

Federal prosecutors say Erickson admitted that she faked surrogacy agreements to look like they were struck prior to conception of the baby, and then filed those false documents in court.

What’s more, the scheme enabled the pregnant women to get state insurance they were not otherwise eligible to receive, prosecutors said.

On a cached version of her website — which has since been removed —- Erickson was described as “one of the few attorneys in the United States who specializes exclusively in the area of Family Formation Law.”

The site stated that Erickson herself long ago became an egg donor for several couples seeking children.

Erickson is slated to be sentenced Oct. 28. She faces up to five years in custody.

Surrogacy 101: Screening Process

Posted on: August 6th, 2011 by Simple Surrogacy No Comments

This article continues our series on informational articles about surrogacy.

As the next step in the process begins, the Surrogate has just decided to match with her Intended Parent couple, who may be a traditional couple,  a gay or same-sex couple, or single Intended Mother or Father. The next step is for the Surrogate to go to the Intended Parent’s clinic of choice to begin her medical screening.

Your clinic of choice will screen the Carrier using the guidelines provided by The American Society for Reproductive Medicine. The screening encompasses a review of their detailed medical history, a physical exam, comprehensive laboratory testing, psychological assessment and medical screening. Multidisciplinary consultations with internists and specialists, psychologists and/or counselors, geneticists may also be required.

If there has been no previous work-up or if the testing is outdated, the Traditional or Gestational Surrogate’s work-up may include:

Gestational Surrogate Medical Screening

· Initial consultation with a Reproductive Endocrinologist

· Physical examination

· Gynecological Exam

· Blood count and chemistry

· Blood type and RH

· Drug toxicology (drugs, alcohol, and nicotine)

· Screening for rubella, cytomegalovirus, , toxoplasmosis

· HIV Antibody

· Hepatitis A, B and C Surface Antigen

· RPR for Syphilis

· Cytomegalovirus (CMV)

· Cervical Cultures for Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Ureaplasma, and Mycoplasma.

· Genetic Testing for Cystic Fibrosis, Tay Sachs Disease, Sickle Cell Disease, and Thalassemia.

· FSH – cycle day 2 or 3

· Group B Strep

· Hysterosalpingogram or Sono-hysterosalpingogram

· Consultation with the IVF nurse coordinator regarding the treatment protocol,
medication and teaching of injections. Review and sign the consent forms.

The Intended Parents will also undergo a screening process, which we will detail later in this series. Once all parties have been screened, and they have passed, then everyone is cleared to begin Counseling, Psych Evaluations and Legal Contracts.

Surrogacy 101: Matching Process

Posted on: July 28th, 2011 by Simple Surrogacy No Comments

Surrogacy 101: Matching Process

This article continues our series on informational articles about surrogacy.

The Matching process is the most fluid and tentative process of the Surrogacy Journey. Intended Parents and Gestational Surrogates must rely on their agency’s expertise to make a great match between themselves so a great partnership can be formed. The relationship between the Surrogate and Intended Parent(s) is the most important in the whole surrogacy process. After all, the Intended Parent(s) and Surrogate will be spending the next productive year together! So, the matching process is very important.

To begin, all identifying information is removed from the Intended Parent(s) Profile. Then that profile is sent out to available, qualifying Surrogates who meet the Intended Parent’s requirements. Those requirements may include state of residence, willingness to reduce or terminate, experience, preferences on contact during and after pregnancy, and employment status. The Intended Parents may have many requirements, but the Surrogate will ultimately have her own requirements as well to pick her Intended Parents. Simple Surrogacy also determines if the parties personalities and common interests match well. All of these considerations are very important.

Once a Surrogate has reviewed the Intended Parent Profile, she will then contact Simple Surrogacy to discuss the potential match. If the Surrogate feels the Intended Parent(s) are a good match for her, we will then send the Intended Parents the profile of the Surrogate.

After the Intended Parent(s) have reviewed the Surrogates profile and are interested in pursuing a match,  the Executive Program Director will set up a conference call between the Intended Parent(s) and potential Surrogate so they can get a better feel for each other.

If the call goes well and they agree to take the next steps, then a face to face meeting is scheduled. Typically all parties will meet for dinner or lunch to become better acquianted.

Once the Intended Parent(s) and Surrogate have met face to face, they will then call the Executive Program Director to discuss how the meeting went and whether or not they would like to pursue a journey together. 

You are considered matched through Simple Surrogacy once you have met your Surrogate or Intended Parent(s) face to face and all parties have relayed to Executive Program Director that they would like to move forward with the medical and legal process.